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Friday, September 09, 2005, 8:16:00 AM
Story i heard from a very wise and nice person..vhaney.Yesterday topic was about love. she told us(siti and me) that love is to let go. and how did she noe? she went for this author's talk. so here the story goes. The husband has cancer. and even though he could depend on machine to live and stuff.. the wife let him go in peace. because it hurt her alt to see him like that. IN the beginning.. she was unwiling to let go. making him go for chemo and everything. btu as time goes by. she sees the way he suffer.. day by day he is grwoing weaker. their financial also thins.. she wanted to keep only the happy memories. she did not want him to suffer too. in the end she let go. story 2: this is a real story. THis guy in india.. went to see this saint.. with his fren. and says that he love his wife alot and that they have 3 children. however. the wife does not love him as much. and went off with another guy. He would forgive her if she jux come back to him. he wouldstill love her and treat her well. then the saint replied saint: do u love ur wife and u want her to be happy? guy: yes. i would give her anything she want. saint: if u love ur wife. if she wants money u will give her money right? guy: yes saint: if she wants sari u will buy her sari right? guy: yes saint: if she wants food u will give her food right? guy: yes. saint: if she happy u are happy right? u wwant her to be happy right? guy: yes. saint: so now. give her the guy she wants. she is happy with him. isnt it true? why bother keeping her with u when she doesnt love u. if u truely love her. as long as she is happy. u are happy too. Love = let go. is it always true? the stories make sense. but how many pple can do it in real life? vhaney is always giving such nice stories. it makes u jux stop and ponder huhx. siti we all were jux listening and we agreed. how many pple can do it? then vhaney asked us. if ur husband has a fling outside. what would u do? let him go. or fight for him dun give a straigh ans. think. because. what happen in real life is often different from what u tink. Wednesday, September 07, 2005, 6:31:00 PM
yesh yesh.. update requested by my sisterx..lolx. well. quite true.. never meet u then no crap to update about! whahaha.jux finish my clinical theory test. UNexpected questions. was going bonkers before the text..lolx. faintx. been a long time since i update! and since the last update.. i haven see my sisterx..heeex. she goin camp le.. sianx. lolx. sch beeen reallie busy.. busy playing.. busy projects.. so many things! outside life.. perfect with darling around.. :) missing my sister!! i miss disturbing u. hahahaahx. enjoying ur peace and quiet times now? better treasure it. its gonna end soonx. |